Respect social norms in a context of changing trends


We are educated people who know social etiquette well, but most of the time it’s always the “educated” people who do the dumbest things.

Now tell me, should we just focus on expanding our knowledge and wisdom?

If you say yes, you must remember that knowledge and wisdom are not the only factors that contribute to a healthy and civilized societal setup.

We live in a civilized society guided by a set of rules and norms that separate us from the animals.

So if you’re wondering what I’m talking about is the fact that driving around town at night and playing loud music has become a growing trend.


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From teenagers to adults, it has become common for some people to “hang out” in residential areas, in the comfort of their cars, while they play their loud music (mostly under the influence of alcohol) in the dead. by night.

Not only is it a nuisance for the whole locality which has the misfortune of welcoming these “revelers”, but it is also a strong negative influence on the children who end up waking up from their peaceful sleep to the sound of blasphemous voices. middle of the night.

It’s sad that some people think it’s cool to go to someone else’s town at night to drink, chat, and play loud music without thinking about others.

Not everyone likes to listen to music that makes windows vibrate at night. Some people have a job, others have to take care of sick relatives, others take the opportunity to prepare for various exams.


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Have manners! No one is stopping you from having a good time with your friend. Drink and be merry if you have to, but don’t do it in such a way that it becomes an inconvenience for others.

Manners make a man, but it hasn’t been applied in a country like ours.

In 2017, a 21-year-old engineering student from Shillong lost his life after his neighbors allegedly assaulted him and his friends for “celebrating a loud birthday” in the Shaheed Udham Singh Nagar area of ​​Satnampura, in the Punjab.

Think about your surroundings for fear of ending up with a blue eye or worse – in custody.

Not all residents will be too kind to let you go with a warning.

This applies to all citizens. If you are having a house party, consider your neighbors as well.

According to the World Happiness Report 2021, India ranks 139th out of 149.

Charity begins at home and it is worth noting that this country has failed on several fronts due to lack of communication between parents, consumerism, competition, favoritism and many more, separating our lives from the problems of the real world.

Indeed, we can never turn the clock back, but it is time for us to make a positive change.


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